From Gary's Journal

Thoughts on grief, ritual & remembrance.

Gary writes openly about grief, the meaning of farewell, and what it means to care for families — long after the day itself.

May 2025

My Work Experience Week at G. Burdett Funeral Services

A young student reflects on discovering what it truly means to care for families as a funeral director.

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December 2024

Navigating Your First Christmas After the Death of a Loved One

Gentle guidance for facing the holidays when familiar traditions highlight an absence.

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October 2024

Understanding the Science Behind the Grief Cycle

A compassionate framework for understanding the stages of grief as a shared human experience.

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Gary’s Story

Following My Own Journey and Living My Dream

Gary shares the personal story behind founding his own funeral practice and his Reiki journey.

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Ritual & Meaning

The Sacred Thread of Life: The Importance and History of Death Rituals

Why rituals matter — from ancient civilisations to the rise of direct cremation today.

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Modern Funerals

Embracing Virtual and Hybrid Funerals

How technology is redefining the way we say goodbye — and what's gained and lost.

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Changing Times

The Changing Setting Within Funerals

How modern values and individual preferences are reshaping where and how we say farewell.

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History

The Evolution of Funerals: How Customs Have Changed Over the Years

From ancient Egypt to green burials — tracing 240,000 years of human farewell.

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Remembrance

Honouring Loved Ones Through Body Art

A guide to commemorative tattoos as a lasting and personal tribute.

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Celebration

Celebration of Life Funerals: Honouring a Legacy with Joy

Why more families are choosing to celebrate, rather than just mourn.

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Green Funerals

What is an “Eco Funeral” and what are the benefits?

A guide to environmentally conscious farewell options and how any funeral can take a greener approach.

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Music & Remembrance

The Importance of Music in a Funeral Service

Gary shares why choosing the right music matters — and reveals what he would have at his own funeral.

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Business & Independence

Exploring Why Going Into Business For Yourself Is a Smart Choice

An honest account of the rewards and challenges of setting up an independent funeral practice.

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Gary’s Story

An Honest Account of Why I, a Funeral Director, Blogs

The first entry — Gary explains why he started writing, and what he hopes these words might do for you.

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